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Shhh: The Secrets Young Adults Keep, and Why Several kinds of secrets are most likely to influence the lives of young adults: Secrets involving drug and alcohol use Secrets involving sexual abuse, rape, or unsafe sex Secrets involving both gender identity and sexual orientation. Secrets involving parentage, adoption, or family heritage Secrets being kept on behalf of someone else that could possibly cause risk to you or others There are as many reasons to keep secrets as there are people who keep.

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We may fear that by revealing a life-changing secret, the people who matter most in our lives will reject us. For a young person harboring a dark secret, it can be challenging to know where or how to seek help. Saginaw older women dating

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I can, however, relate to your friends making this choice. Similarly, there came a turning point where I knew I was no longer sharing what was going on with me with just my girlfriends; they would be bringing this information home to their spouses — which makes sense, if they also consider their partners their primary relationship. Science tells us that by revealing ourselves to others — i.

As humans, we are constantly seeking meaning, and it has always been one of the primary motivations for human beings and part of re gaining mental health Looking for someone to share my secrets, When we create meaning, we define our identities through our narratives White, which has an influence on our psychological and mental health Pennebaker and Seagal, And in case of adversity or challenging experiences, we would usually go from refusal and denial to a Looking for younger lover 59 Poipu pantana 59 where Looking for someone to share my secrets can gradually cope with the situation by finding a new way of interpreting what went wrong and integrating it into our narrative to put the world back together Baumeister, It is in this light that we must see our innate desire to share our secrets.

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The chance that they will use our secret against us also seems reasonably small, and as we are not related as such, there is no notable consequence if they decide to pass our secret on. The mental health benefits of sharing a secret We should share more secrets, and there are many reasons why. One is that we use a lot of mental capacity keeping secrets.

A study showed that we are actually thinking about a secret three times more often than actively hiding it from. This in a Mature adult searching uk dating site burden that is associated with poorer mental and physical health Slepian, Chun and Mason, So, just thinking about our secrets can burden us and thus decrease our motivation seen from this cognitive perspective.

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It will cause an increase in cortisol levels, affect memory, blood pressure, gastrointestinal tract and metabolism — all of which will affect our emotional and physical well-being Slepian, Masicampo and Ambady, But it can be difficult to reveal a secret, especially if the experience is related to guilt or shame.

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